Friday, September 23, 2005

Dump Beach - Victor Harbor, South Australia


You don't get Beaches like these in British Columbia! We found ourselves making the journey back to Australia after being absent for only 4 months. We were set for a blurred visit, with only 5 and a half days on land - purpose being for my brother's wedding. The 17-hour flight from Vancouver to Adelaide was never going to be fun, but it was very much without the drama of the original trip, in fact, it was as pleasant as you can get with two little kids - much to our relief. Although our trip was short, our itinerary was jam packed with people to visit. Unfortunately we failed to achieve all that we had planned, but we tried. We stayed in Victor Harbor for most of our trip and considered ourselves very lucky to stay in a rental property overlooking this glorious view.

Making sand castles


With this fab. beach on our doorstep, would you believe that we only managed to get down to it once during our entire trip. Alex and Olivia had such a great time down there making sand castles and dipping their feet into the cold water. Olivia was taken home literally kicking and screaming - she was drenched but it didn't seem to matter to her, she loved every second of it. Alex kept asking to go back to there, unfortunately we just didn't have time.

In Rundle Mall


The trip to Oz was a success in more ways than one. I was also lucky enough to accompany my wonderful friend in her quest to find a wedding dress for her big day in March 2006 -this was achieved before lunch on her first day of looking. All I am willing to reveal about the dress is that it is gorgeous and she is going to look breath-taking!
The kids and I awoke Saturday morning - the day of the wedding and the day before we were leaving, with streaming noses and sore throats, so we ducked into the mall to stock up on the medications. Alex was delighted to see the Rundle Mall piggies - I couldn't resist taking a picture of him giving "Augusta" a pat!

Tim and Bernie


This was the whole reason for the trip, to witness my brother marry his lovely bride Bernie. The weather did not look promising the morning of the wedding, but the clouds dispersed and the sun shone through, just when it was meant to. It was a great day and it was wonderful to see them so happy together. We wish them all the love, laughter, health and happiness in the world.

Me and My Sweets


This picture was taken after the wedding ceremony in the Veale Gardens. The reception was held in The Tunnels under the Old Lion. It didn't go too late, which was good for us as we had to get up at the crack of dawn to commence the 20 hour flight back to Vancouver (not including stop over time). Once again the flight was largely without incident or drama. Alex, now an expert flyer, knew the drill and just wanted to get it over with. "Lets get on the next plane" he kept saying. Whereas on the way over, he had asked if he could get off after only one hour on the thing. After we arrived home, we asked him if he wanted to go on another plane flight (joking, thinking the answer would be a definate "no!"), he eagerly said he would, then asked "tomorrow?". So I guess that means we will just have to come back again, hey!

Monday, September 19, 2005

Cobie and Angus at Stanley Park

Lost then Found

We found Cobie. Halleluljah!
Shocked and feeling absolutely helpless were Ashley and I last night, after arriving back in Canada after a short trip to Australia for my brother's wedding, only to be told that Cobie had bolted away from the people who were caring for him for us, when they took he and Angus to a park for a play and a walk. Obviously they were stressed to the max and feeling sick to the stomach about the situation, but they did everything to find him - rang each of the shelters daily and placed ads in all the local papers.
Last night travelled back home with one dog less, saddened, shocked and silent. Alex kept asking "where is Cobie? I want Cobie". W e told him the truth, "he ran away and we don't know where he is". We told him "Cobie was very sad that we went away and he wanted to find us". We told him "we will ring some people in the morning to see if they know where he is". Alex seemed to accept this and stopped asking about his lost dog. Alex's first words when he woke up this moring were "are we going to ring some people about Cobie now?" I was already on to it, checking websites for lost animals before the shelters opened.But at noon today, I rang the last shelter on Angus and Cobie's carer's carefully compiled list, only to be met with the joyous words "yes, Cobie has been found".
Cobie was in Burnaby, quite a distance from where he was found. He had crossed some major roads to get to where he ended up - wandering around outside a spare parts wharehouse for Patrick's forklifts and loaders. Miraculously he was safe and well, but extremely thin, dehydrated and hungry.
When we arrived to pick him up, he was inside the store with a kindly man who had him leashed to his chair behind his desk. He had shared his sandwich with Cobie and provided him with a nice drink of water. Upon seeing us Cobie started his now familiar grumbling yelp, which he does after a distressing time. It is as though he is trying to speak - telling us about his ordeal or asking us where we had been, perhaps both. But he was happy to see us, he did not look distressed - it was as though he felt he now had what he had wanted - his own family back.
After that we took him to the vet for a check up and a rabies shot (since his whereabout were unknown for so long). He received a clean bill of health, besides some redness of the eyes and very obvious starved physique. We thank the angels who looked after him, and can hardly believe we have him back after he went missing for so long in an unfamiliar environment.
I am also thankful to those who looked after him; for not telling us when we were far from home; for trying desperately to find him during the week and for caring for him lovingly before he ran away. He is a one owner dog and it troubles us when we must leave him for any length of time in an unfamiliar place, because he gets so distressed. Since the flight over from Australia his nervous disposition has heightened significantly, and we do not know what to do. We know we have not been in our new home very long, so we hope he will settle down once a routine becomes established, and a sense of security can once again be entrenched for him.
Anyway, in future I think we will pay for a dog sitter!

Sunday, September 18, 2005

The Dog at the End of My Bed

Oh, what a life to be a dog. Not just any dog – one of my dogs! My dogs love being inside, they have the run of the house. My family think they are spoilt. They are yappy and noisy and a tad bit naughty, but I love them all the same. They sit on top of my couch, the couch that rests up against the windowsill providing an extra wide ledge from which they can stretch out on in comfort and sink into the soft comfy leather and watch the world go by. The longer they lie there the lower they sink and the more they sink the warmer and cosier they become. On extra cold days I throw a woolly violet coloured rug over then and they think they have died and gone to heaven. This is Angus’ favourite spot. He stands (or should I say lays) lookout and tells me what is going on in the world. It can be quite irritating to be told whenever any passer by should dare even walk past our house, especially to walk their dog. And God forbid it should anyone knock on the door. And heaven help us should anyone think they might like to come in!

Cobie’s favourite spot is to burrow under my bed covers. I am afraid this has been a life long condition with him; a condition that all the persuasion in the world has been unable to correct. You see, when he was a pup, he came from a large family of inside dogs. He has seven same aged siblings somewhere in the world. When we brought our sad looking little dog home, he cried and howled the whole night through. He howled so much that Angus could bear it no more and slunk out the doggy door and barked on the back deck. I did not dare test the limits of my neighbour’s tolerance and I opened the laundry door and held Cobie until he became sleepy. I called Angus back in and settled them both in their beds, and went back to bed myself. But no sooner had the laundry door shut the howling and crying began (the dogs were quite noisy too). I patted my tired and grumpy husband on the back and assured him it would be ok. This time I thought perhaps the little fella was scared of Angus, they weren’t yet accustomed to each other and Angus was rather confused by the introduction of a new pup to the house. So I let Angus in and brought his bedding into our room hoping the little fella whom was not yet house trained would be able to settle and sleep.

But no! He was now alone, and that was apparently even worse. He was now experiencing the cold painful reality that he no longer had the comfort of his Mummy to cuddle into for warmth and reassurance. Nor the familiar playful nudging, pushing and shoving from his brothers and sisters as they each completed for the snuggliest spot. So I took pity on my tiny furry bundle and lay out a towel and placed it on the bed. I lay my pouting, slinky pooch on the towel and lay down beside him. We all enjoyed the remainder of the night in a quiet peaceful sleep.

To this day, Angus and Cobie sleep in my room. They each have a lovely soft basket at the foot of my own bed. They both jump under their blankets each night as instructed, but each morning, without fail, a warm and heavy little body is felt lying spread out on my toes. I never hear him make his move. He is a quiet sneaky scamp, but Cobie thinks this is his bed, but is happy to amuse me by jumping into his own bed at the beginning of night.

While spoilt inside dogs can be demanding at times, they have so much love to give and are as loyal as anyone could hope or ask. There is however, something that I will always be grateful for. When I was home alone one night, they chased away some slippery, fearsome, devilish being who dared to break into the house. Who knows where I would be if they had succeeded, if I had not been blessed with my two spoilt, yappy, bed-hogging, lazy, loving, playful and just a bit too clever, Jack Russell dogs.

On the night of Tuesday the 13th of September Cobie ran away and has not been seen since. It goes without saying that we are worried sick and are desperate to have him back. I included this piece, which I wrote years ago, to keep him in our thoughts, while lost - Thank you.

Thursday, September 08, 2005

Alex and Pre-school

Alex set off on his first day of pre-school today and surprisingly, none of my well founded anxieties materialised. For those who do not know, Alex has previously screamed and cried and appeared terrorised at the very thought of being left with just about anyone. It was only a six months ago that I had to take him to a couple of night classes I was doing due to his anxieties about being left, and a year ago that I had to abondon a whole cooking course because the howling and crying from the creche in the next room was annoying others and stressing me out, to the point where I thought perhaps that tightness and pain in my chest was actually me having a heart attack!
Anyway I built up the whole pre-school thing. It is only a 4 minute walk across the oval to get there. We had been over there many times to play in the school playground. And everytime I would ask Alex, "where is your school" and he would point and say "over there". Last week we went in the building to drop in the enrolement form and meet the teacher. Alex was able to see all the fun and interesting things he could play with; and the mention of meeting other kids seemed to light up his eyes, rather than evoke somekind of expectation fear, as would have been the case in the past.
Excitedly this morning he got out his Wiggles backpack and put in a change of clothes, his dreaded hat, a nappy, his drink and then asked for a snack to be placed in his bag; he couldn't wait. At 9am sharp we walked over to the school and waited a few short minutes before the doors opened, signalling the commencement of a new phase in life. As we waited, a little girl stomped around the corner whining "I don't want to go to pre-school". I gasped, would this less than enthusiastic spectacle throw a stone into the seemingly calm first day of pre-school waters? No, Alex was unflappable, confident and eager to get in there. It was a side of him I had never before seen and it was great. He was ready! And we told him how proud of him we were for beig a brave boy. I will leave Alex to tell you about his first morning at pre-school.

Blog by Alex


Alex's first day at pre-school. I went to pre-school today, it was fun. I didn't cry when Mummy left me there and I didn't feel like crying either. There were trains there and cars and painting. I played with the train first and then the red car. Then I had a tea party with the lady. I put food on her plate, but she didn't eat it. I did some songs - "Baa Baa black sheep", a train song, which was nice and another one..."Row, Row, Row your boat'. The car was my favourite. I wanted to do painting but I didn't do it today. I will do some painting next time.
I didn't talk to the other kids and we didn't have a snack. Lady said "we will have a snack next time". Daddy came to see me at the pre-school. Daddy not coming next time, it was a treat. The lady said "pack up time" and I put my Wiggle bag on and the lady said those boys couldn't go outside first. The lady said I could go outside first. I ate some jelly babies on the way home. I want to go there again tomorrow.

Tuesday, September 06, 2005

The days and nights are getting colder.


Olivia (17 months) at Tsaawwassen.

Monday, September 05, 2005

Ladner/Westham Island float homes


Here are those float homes that I had spoken about previously. I don't really get them. They are not house boats, they actually sit right on the water and well...float. In rough weather it is a bit of a rough ride and you can get quite wet, so I have been told. Apparently carrying your groceries in on a wet and wild day is a bit of a nightmare - each to their ownI guess.There are a couple for sale here in Ladner starting from a cool $450K - just in case anyone was thinking of a lifestyle change!.

Sunday, September 04, 2005

Communication breakdown

Hi everyone, it has been too long between blogs! We have had so much trouble with the communication over the last two months, but we are now set up and back on line.
There are so many people striking in BC at the moment, you have the teachers (the new school year commences this week), wharfies who unload shipping containers (Migrant workers, who make up the majority of this workforce are protesting that they are not paid accordingly when compared to Canadain wharfies - fair enough I reckon), Boeing workers, and the phone company, which is a real inconvenience. They are protesting for greater job security and a pay rise since they haven't gotten one in over 5 years and in that time a couple of CEO's have had their pays increase by 60% and 88% to $6.5 mill/year each, while increasing profits to record levels and sacking thousands of workers. I can see the TElus workers point and the near stand still in service provision is completely unacceptable for consumers, but Telus, the phone company, is not budging. I don't know who is likely to crack first, the CEO's are still getting paid a fortune and Telus is still making a killing, but the protestors are only making $200/week on the picket line - makes you wonder. Anyway enough of that. We got possession of our house on the 1st August and spent the next gruelling and crazy two weeks renovating; we moved in on the 15th Aug. In the pictures to follow, you will see the before and after shots, remember that we accomplished all this in only two weeks. We are still amazed at how we could have pulled this off. The painters were actually still doing the final touch ups as the furniture was being moved in. People who saw it before and after are quite amazed, since they were convinced that our plans were quite unrealistic, knowing this of course makes us feel good too. Since moving in, we have not felt like going to far from our house, it has been a long time coming and we just want to settle in and enjoy our own space and some privacy. It was wierd on the first couple of days, since we had become used to being quite in the morning so as not to disturb other people who were living in close proximity. I suggest you scoll down through the pictures, because there are more entries than appear listed within the right hand side mini browser. Happy browsing!

Big pile of rubbish


This and more was removed from the place. It was pretty much gutted. . The house was in a pretty bad way before we got to work on it. Superficially it might look ok, but there was a little problem with absolutely everything we looked at - well some problems were little and some were big. But it seemed every little thing had something wrong with it. We suspect that the previous owners did alot of the work themselves over the years, because you would think that at least one tradesperson would do a good job - the odds of striking a good contractor have to be better than what these people encountered. Anyway, have a look. I know that our choice of things will not be to everones liking, but this is what we have chosen and this is our base. We wanted to create warmth, so we chose yellow tones for the walls; the kids rooms are blue like they had in Australia, just to keep something the same for them. They have settled in well and like the new place. It has tennis courts behind as well as baseball diamonds and an elementary school, which is where Alex will start pre-school this week. So, this is our house - Welcome.

Hedge


I don't have a before picture of this, but we had all the hedge trimmed and the bushes out front. I don't think this perimetre hedge had ever been clipped as it was quite spindley. We hope it will fill out a bit, but it looks a lot neater now anyway.

New fence


The previous owners had a home based glass company. There was a large skip in the corner here, and for 10 years the guy had been tossing all his old glass into it. You would not believe how much glass there was on the ground, and how far it had spread. It was such a hazard for kids and dogs that we had to get a bobcat guy in to scrap this entire area. It was an expense that we just hadn't factored in and it was one of the many surprises to blow the budget, but we had to do it for safety reasons. Unfortunately we are still finding lots of glass , but not the large sheets that we were finding before. Soemtimes Olivia comes over with a piece in her hand. It is a bit of worry. As soon as is financially possible, we want to put down some soil and plant a new lawn, so hopefully it won't be a problem for too long.

More new fence


We had to put in a completely new fence, which looks good now. It is cedar and smells so nice. We had a large workshop removed prior to taking over the place, which has left a large void in the bakyard, but the building inspector said we should ask the owners to pull it down, since it was beyond repair. With that gone it is a reasonably large backyard - more usable space than we had before in Flagstaff Hill and what is better, it is flat!


Bedroom before

Bedroom After


This picture doesn't give a true impression of the room, which we like. It does need some pictures on the wall and some window treatments but that is about it. We changed the light in here, first because it was ugly and second because it (a tacky chandelier) broke into a dozen pieces when the painters tried to move it to paint around, so that sort of cemented our commitment to changing it.


Ensuite before:

Ensuite after


We just painted this and removed the menacing furry purple animal from the tiolet lid and the caped cusader beside it.

Saturday, September 03, 2005


Family room before

Family room after


This is where the kids play with all their toys. There is a cupboard under the stairs where all the toys are stored, it is great. You can't see this room from the front, so they can mess it up without too much panic when there is an unexpected knock at the door. It is pretty cool in summer too.

Entry before


There were so many mirrors in this place that it could have been mistaken for the Fun House at the Royal Adelaide Show - except without the fun.

Entry After


Looks pretty palin from here, but it is actually much better given the whole picture. As you can see we changed the mirrored doors to white adn put in some railing for up the entry steps. It had a nice parquet floor, but it was no longer available. We decided to rip it up and put in a new wood laminex one all the way through to the utility room, and matched for the kitchen.


View up the stairs Before.

View up stairs after


We got rid of the mirrors on the large wall, and the mirrored display thingy, which was placed much to low and looked wrong when looking toward the entry. We also removed the glass brick wall and replaced it with the railing. We also removed the glass brick wall on the opposide side, which you can not see, and replaced that with a low wall .

Utility room before


This is where our money was spent believe it or not. This room is the first thing you see when you walk into the house, and look at it! It was completely unfinished; bare concrete floor; no gyprock on the walls; no doors on the cupboard holes; things hanging from the rafters and a ugly chandelier hanging by a coat hanger to some cords along the unfinished ceiling, which by the way, did not work and had no globes in it. It served no purpose whatsoever and just made the room look crappier than it did already - I guess it could have served as a device for knoking out unsuspecting robbers - who knows - the room was a dumping ground and it was the first thing you saw - not good feng shui!

Utility room after


Much more presentable and user friendly. This is where you put on and remove shoes. We have a shoe storer in teh left and corner. Everyone in Canada automatically takes off their shoes when entering someones home. I imagine it is because it is usually wet and muddy outside. We are yet to experience this, but think it is a good habit to get into now. When we forget Alex is there to remind us "Hey, no shoes on the carpet!"


View from the front entry turning right going up the first lot of steps into the lounge - Before.

...And After


View from the front entry turning right going up the first lot of steps into the lounge - After.

Alex's room before


Don't ask! The painters shook their heads at this wall colour choice; it was even on the ceiling.

Alex's room after


I think the changes are obvious. We just changed the paint and the cupboard doors, which were mirrored and now are white - the same as the rest of the house. We don't have a picture of Olivia's room as she was sleeping when I took these, but you get the general idea.

Lounge/formal dine before


We are making this area a library.

Lounge/library after


As a library we plan to get a comfy reading chair, some suitable drapery, a reading light and other stuff to make it feel more library-like, but since there are soooo many more important and immediate things that require attention, I think it will probably stay this way for a while. You could say that this whole lounge/library area is a work in progress.

Lounge before


People literally shuddered when they saw this carpet and these dominating mirrors.

Lounge after


We painted the walls, took down the mirrors, changed all the light fittings, put in two new lights, painted all the trim white, new carpet, and removed and fixed the rotten flooring around the fireplace. I know... it needs pictures and window treatments, it is a bit of a theme.


Kitchen before.

Kitchen after


Kind of looks unlived in, hey. Well we took up the green lino and put in a floating wood laminex floor; got rid of the mirrored tile and put in plain white tiles, put in a new facet, changed the hinges and door knobs to white, changed the bench top from teal green to black and freshened up the the cupboards with a fresh coat of white paint, lastly we put a warm yellow on the walls. No, lastly we peeled off the contact that was inside the cupboard under the sink, and found a rotten to the foundations floor, then we put in a new cupbaord bottom (just another lovely surprise).

Kitchen/dine before


We decided that the stripey goose themed wall paper and frilly pink things had to go.

Kitchen/dine after


Sorry no window treatments here either.

Office before


The clutter was removed for us, so we just took off this unecessary mirror - yes another one, painted it and put in much needed new carpet. The carpet guy suggested we do this room for "hygeine purposes" oooh! There were all sorts of wiring issues in here too, which were only sorted yesterday.

Office after no. 1


This is a sofa bed so this room doubles as the guest room. There is a bathroom next to this room, so come on over - your room is ready!


Office after no.2